We went to the cemetery for internment yesterday afternoon. Was one of the worst days in my life. I lost it 4 times, and especially with the shovel of dirt my sister wanted me to do. My brother Dick and I lost it together after that. We both bawled like babies and we really needed to get it out. My son Wes came over and embraced both of us. Wes is going to speak at the memorial. I spoke at my father's, but I'm not sure if I'm up for this one. We're continuing on as if mom was still here. We had our planned pizza party at Marion's Pizza in Centerville Ohio with about 55 people in attendance. Today is the memorial at 2:00PM with about 80 or more expected. Then at 4:00PM we will have the planned party celebrating my mother's life along with my sister Donna's 65th birthday and Uncle Glenn's 95th and should have about 70 in attendance.
Big hugs to you, Hal. If ever there's a time its okay to break down and bawl like a baby its now. Just try and remember all the good stuff and honor her with your deeds and by loving your children and grandchildren and making sure they know all about her. She must have been one hell of a lady to have raised you and all your siblings.
My condolences to you and your family. I got hit in the gut this morning when my sister sent me a text about my Mom and when we talked, she told me there may be a possible health problem but my Mom is not talking. I will talk to her tonite but I admit that I am scared... Stay strong man...
