my wife was spotting wed last week and we went to the doctor on friday and did alot of test and come to find out that her body apears to be rejecting the baby and isnt letting it grow. And they did more test and took more blood and told us to come back for a check up monday. so this weekend she had been cramping, clotting and bleeding. basicly starting a period. so today we went to the doctor again. and they told us that at 8 weeks her body is termating the pregancy and its going though its cycle of cleaning its self out. were both pretty devestated right now and im accually in tears while typeing this. im not going to go into too much more details than this. i just wanted to let you guys know. that were not going to be having a kid right now. we will be able to in the future, right now it F******** sucks!!!!!
Been through that a few times buddy. Be kind to the little miss because this hurts not only her body but her self esteem badly. So take extra care of her. (amazing was a dinner and a movie will do) First Tri's miscarriages are very common.
Im soooo sorry to hear this Nev......That is a hard thing to go through and I know how you/she feels....loosing a baby is not easy. If you need anything or just need to talk PM me im here for you............
So sorry for your family's loss Nevin. Life throws you some bumps in the road, you just don't know when or where. I'm still hitting potholes. That's what builds us and gives us our character. Your family will be in my prayers.
sorry.........truly, but keep in mind also if her body rejected it, then something was probably wrong, and could have been a lot worse in the future, full term, or after the kid was born. my ex boss went through that, and they now have 3 great kids.......hang in there man, I know it's tough.
I'm very sorry, Nevin.... Lord, bless our friends today we pray, Wherever they may be; And help them as they go their way, To keep their trust in Thee. Lord, hear each prayer they raise to Thee, And dry each falling tear; And hover o'er them constantly, For treasured friends are dear. Surround them with Thy mercy, Lord, Protect them by Thy power; And let them feel Thy presence, Lord, In every lonely hour. Stand by them when the road is steep, And no one seems to care; Thy arm of love around them keep, And whisper You are there. And give them strength to bear the cross, As through this vale they go; And stand by them in every loss, That they meet here below. And when at last the hour shall be, That life's short journey ends; O, let them lean the more on Thee, And comfort these, our friends. And open heaven's gate, dear Lord, And let them enter there; For heaven will be heaven, Lord, Because our friends are there.
nev, im truly sorry to hear about your loss. this is just nature though man, its better to lose the fetus now before it is actually born. i know it must feel like hell though either way bro, keep your head up and most importantly take care of your girl. im sure you hurt, but this was truly a part of her for a period of time. dote on her constantly and make sure she knows shes the most important thing to you and that you in no way whatsoever blame her.
Hey Nev, very sorry to hear what you are going through. Unfortunately this is very common, but not many talk about it with others. Everything happens for a reason bro and even though times seem very dark for you right now, the future will be brighter my friend. Hang in there, be there for your other half, and you will prevail.
Oh geez Nev I'm so sorry for you guys, I know how much you were looking forward to a little one. I could say the typical bs ... time heals all wounds, god must have had a reason for this, try again, etc., etc., and it's all true but doesn't do shiat for how you guys feel right now. All I can say is, from the bottom of my heart, I'm sorry for your loss. :sad:
Very sorry to hear this. As you know, the first trimester is the most difficult, reguardless of how pregnancy was concieved. Take your time with the Mrs. to heal. Give her full support, like you get here:flowers:, and perhaps another try in the future could successful.
Thanks guys yeah i knw that its not her fault its just something that happens, its just really hard right now.
Nevin, I know I don't know you that well, but one thing that has always, and I mean ALWAYS kept me going is something that was told to me by my late Grandfather/Best Friend, and that is: "God doesn't give you, what he feels you can't handle." My prayers and thoughts to you and your family. I/we have had to endure the same thing, twice. It is never easy. Take care of your Queen.
Sorry to hear this Nev... But remember, it only goes up from here. My wife had two miscarrages when we were first married. I am now the proud father of a two year old boy. Just keep trying for a baby, and you'll be happy.
Nev, I really feel for you and your wife right now. As someone has stated before it might've been your wife's body rejecting the fetus because there was something wrong with it and may've not been healthy. I have a 6 year old son with Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy which is a Fatal disease. I can't stress enough how badly this hurts my wife and I everyday to watch him struggle with life's little things and knowing his life will never be like ours. I wouldn't wish this on anyone. So in a small way maybe it was for the better. Take care of yourself and your wife and when the time is right you'll try again and be successful.
Sorry to read about your loss. My wife and I went through this about 13 years ago. We lost our 1st about 10 weeks in to her pregnacy, after wards we decided to hold off on having a child for a few years. She went to the doctor about a month after the miscarriage for a prescription to take the pill and she was pregnant again. Everything happens for a reason do not give up hope my friend!
